Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege

When someone starts off a conversation with  “you got to promise not to get mad”
Then  you know you are pretty much about to get pissed off.
Someone did this to me today and after getting pissed off by what this person told me.
I started thinking about the  whole promising not to get mad thing.
I think it is pretty shitty to ask someone not to get mad when you know you are about to tell them something that would piss anyone off.
Asking someone not to get mad is like shooting someone and  then say don’t be in  pain.
It is fucking retarded to say some dumb shit like that.
And another thing why do people think being angry is such a bad thing .
Anger is a natural emotion that everyone feels and should feel .
Yes I know you can take anger to far ….but that is not what I am talking about.
I think it is very unhealthy when people are angry and keep it all bottled up inside.
And what really pisses me off is when people do or say something that they know is going to make you mad and then expect you not to get angry.
Well that just isn’t the way I am when I am angry I show it .
Yes I know that we have to direct our anger in a healthy way …..but I say it is better to let the anger out than keeping it inside.
Because if you  keep it all bottled up then one day it will come to a head in bad way.
And that is not good for anyone.
So I guess the point to all this is don’t tell someone bad news and expect that person  not to react in a natural way which is being mad.
And  it isn’t always a bad thing to get angry.