Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege

Act positive in a negative situation.
Well that is hard when you are in a negative situation.
I hate it when people  say that.
Yes if you are strong enough to smile when something awful happens more power to you…but see I am what you call a human being.
And when sad shit happens guess what? I get sad for crying out loud.

There is nothing wrong with feeling sad when bad shit happens.
I believe that if you are smiling and acting all giddy when you know that you feel like shit on the inside.
Well then that makes you a liar .
No it doesn’t make you strong  to act like you are not hurting when you know damn well that you are.

A friend of mine died a few years back.
At the funeral  his father broke down and was crying a lot.
I heard someone say he should stop that and be strong for his wife.
Well that was like throwing fire in my face.
So I kindly told that guy he was a fucking moron.

I mean come on people when bad stuff happens it hurts …and it is perfectly ok.
To show that you are hurting.
We are human  not machines we were meant to feel.

Yes I know when people  say shit like be strong they are just trying to help.
Well it doesn’t help.
Sometimes we cant be strong.
Sometimes we just need to cry  or feel like crap it is part of the healing process.

So for the love of god when you are feeling bad and someone tells you have to be strong are that you need get a hold of yourself.
Tell that asshole that Pimpmunk said shut the hell up.